Wonderful Wednesday- 6 Tips to Stay in the Now


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“Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.” ~Thich Nhat

We all can be mindful for a moment or two, but developing your mindfulness muscle means that you have to take things to a higher level.

In today’s world, it’s all too easy to get distracted from what’s truly important. Wherever you go, and whatever you do, you see messages designed to get you to perform a specific action and distract you from the fact that you are already whole.

There are no reminders to be mindful unless we create them.

The responsibility is in your hands. Staying in the present moment can dramatically reduce stress, increase your happiness, and give you bursts of insight that might change your life.

Ever since I’ve started becoming aware of my thoughts and staying in the now, my life has improved significantly, and I know yours will, too.

Here are a few down-to-earth tips on how to become more mindful:

1. Notice your tendencies.

You and I, we both have our unique tendencies that distract us from the present moment. I’m a worrier, so I tend to think about the future and try to solve problems before they even happen.

What are your tendencies? What kind of thoughts tend to rob you of the now?

These questions will help you become more mindful about what is going on in your head, which in turn leads to mindfulness.

A few examples of tendencies that are very common are:

  • anxiety
  • worry
  • regret
  • guilt
  • fear
  • pleasure seeking

A great tip is to write down your tendencies and how they tease you out of the now. Grab a piece of pen and paper, and just do it.

2. Practice acceptance.

Once you start becoming mindful of your tendencies, it’s crucial that you don’t judge yourself. Practice acceptance and embrace who you are.

The tendencies you have are there for a reason. They are signposts pointing to the areas of your life that need attention.

If you’re a chronic worrier, you need to start noticing whenever you begin drifting to the future. Become mindful, observe your thoughts, and breathe.

We believe our thoughts to be the authority on life, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Our thoughts are just thoughts.

3. Question your thoughts.

Your thoughts aren’t always right. In fact, they are rarely right, especially if they make you feel bad.

Question your thoughts constantly. When you start to feel negative emotions, use it as a reminder to examine what thoughts are causing the commotion.

Most people walk around all day letting negative thoughts cause negative feelings. We both know that nothing good can come out of this.

It takes discipline to be mindful, but the rewards are peace and happiness. Even researchers are discovering the power of emotions. Negative emotions not only have the power to make you feel bad, but can affect your physical health as well.

Whenever a negative thought arises, take a step back, and look at if the thought is true.

4. Use reminders.

Another great way to stay anchored in the now is to use reminders. It can be as simple as tying a white string around your wrist.

Each time you look at the white string, you are reminded of the present moment. Are you in the now, or are you somewhere else?

There are no limits to what you can use as a reminder. If you want to take this even further, you can add a new reminder each week.

Start using external reminders such as red cars, billboards, and so on. If you keep doing this, you will be astonished at the results.

5. Be determined.

Increasing the time you spend in the present moment can be a lot of work. If you’re serious about becoming more mindful, you have to be determined.

There will be times when you feel like you want to throw in the towel. You will face challenges, obstacles, and problems.

But if you’re determined, you will get through them. They are nothing but teachers on your path.

When you make becoming more mindful one of your main goals, you simply cannot fail.

6. Follow your passion.

I have noticed that the more I follow my passion and my hearts deepest desire, the more I am able to stay in the now.

I enjoy every second of every minute when I’m working on something I love. My heart buzzes with joy and I feel amazing.

Writing is one of my passions. I love helping people improve their life. It makes me come alive, and it keeps me in the present moment.

Inspiration flows effortlessly, and it’s almost like I am channelling someone else as I am writing. Find your passion and go after it.

Becoming more mindful is done step-by-step. You do not have to go all-in. You only have to increase the amount of time you spend in the present moment each and every day.

If you do that, it’s impossible for you not to become a mindfulness master.

 

~Have a Wonderful Wednesday

©Etta D. Richards

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10 comments on “Wonderful Wednesday- 6 Tips to Stay in the Now

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  2. Myles Butler says:

    These are great tips! I hadn’t thought of the following your passion one before, but it’s definitely true. I’m always much more grounded in the present when doing something I love.

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  4. What a wonderful way to give food for thought in this ever distracting world, to practice living in the moment is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves, as human beings. It is for the good of our health and well being x So lovely to share so that is what I will do x Hope you enjoy my latest post too xx https://goo.gl/d48kLN – ‘Look After You……’ with warmth and wishes Up and Down the Rabbit Hole xx

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  5. Miriam says:

    What a wonderful list of reminders Etta. I’m a chronic worrier too so staying in the present and being mindful is a constant challenge for me.

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  6. Jonny says:

    These are really good tips, I’ll certainly use them. Especially a piece of string or bracelet around my wrist!

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