Wonderful Wednesday-The Storm We All Know As Christmas


 

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“A lovely thing about Christmas is that it’s compulsory, like a thunderstorm, and we all go through it together.”
~Garrison Keillor

Between buying gifts, wrapping gifts, last minute shopping for gifts, sending off Christmas cards (electronic or paper), planning Christmas dinner, buying the tree, decorating the tree, entertaining kids on holiday break, making Christmas dinner! Sigh! The joy of the season can quickly be buried in ALL that and then some! Leaving you crippled with stress if you’re not careful. Christmas suppose to be one of the most wonderful time of the year, but many of us are so caught up in the commercialization of the season we lose sight of it all; worrying yourselves sick trying to have everything perfect for that one day! I know because I’ve been there, done that.

 

Worrying about what you didn’t get done is NOT going to make is happen faster, in fact, it’s not going to make it happen at all. I rarely buy gifts nowadays, for the mere fact that every day is like Christmas for me. Throughout the year I’m buying gifts for family and friends. Yes, I still knock myself out decorating but that’s only because my decorations come out once a year, It would be a bore to have them up year around beside my children would NEVER allow me to have Christmas decorations up past January 6th. Mid-January is pushing it!

 
I know it’s easier said than done, but you have my permission de-stress this year. Breath, Meditate, Repeat! I’m not saying my life is worry-free or stress-free, but I’m not worried about what I don’t have or stressing over what’s not done. In my imperfection, my mind does slip back to its old ways but I always whip it back in line and centring myself. I know you want the best Christmas, I know you want to keep up all the traditions, you want your kids to have everything they’ve ask Santa for, you want your Christmas to be perfect in every which way and you deserve all that you desire and them some. But don’t spoil the season by ruining the holidays for yourself. Release the stress, forget about what you don’t have, accept what you do have, commend yourself on what you have done, forgive yourself for what you couldn’t do and move on, the storm will be over soon.

 
So, what’s stressing you this year? Not done gift shopping? Not sure about Christmas dinner? Not being able to keep up ALL the Christmas traditions? Share in the comment section or better yet, share your Christmas story  🙂

 

~Happy Wednesday

©Etta D. Richards

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2 comments on “Wonderful Wednesday-The Storm We All Know As Christmas

  1. […] We’re in the middle of January. If not the, one of the most hated months of the year. Two ladies in the food store reminded me of this a few days ago when I overheard them speaking about how much they hated January because of all the money spent during the holidays and they’re having to cut corners paying out bills this month. It’s the month after the Holiday where most of us went crazy with the decorations, shopping and spending just about every dime we could get our hands on. Ever since I can remember  January has always been referred to as the longest month of the year because it was such a ‘dry month,’ dry as in, it’s the month people sulk around waiting for pay day to recoup some of their finances from the beating it took during the storm called Christmas. […]

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  2. […] to be ready for it because whether you’re ready or not December 25th is coming. So surviving the storm called Christmas is really a matter of mentally preparing yourself for it and deciding what you want to […]

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