If you take a responsibility for yourself, you will develop a hunger to achieve your dreams. Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else. But you can develop collaborative, achievement driven relationships. Get around people who want more out of life, who want to make a change, who want to succeed, people who are making things happen! A lot of people do not muster the courage to live their dreams because they are afraid to die.