And it will hurt like hell….You’re going to lose people along the way people you thought you’d never lose. People you truly believed would always be there and it’s going to hurt like hell. But that, my friend, is life. People change, relationships change.
Some evolve. Some disintegrate. Some people leave through no will of their own and that hurts the most. They didn’t want to go. But you, you will survive it all. You will. You will look back and realise that the people you need, really need, are still here, in some soul connective way.
And that the other relationships you lost along the way, have taught you something that made you better.
And that’s life. Hold close those who are in your life now and remember the ones who left, fondly. Even the ones who broke your heart.
Regret nothing. Use the feelings of pain to commit to a life here and now, a life where you take no one or nothing for granted. Where you cherish every minute with those people you love.
You’re going to lose people along the way, my friend.But that is life.Every minute counts.
“Disappointment is a blessing. If you were never disappointed, you’d never know what was important to you.” ― Kamand Kojouri
Unless you live in a vacuum or totally off-grid without human contact, people will disappoint you. Our days flow according to our expectations and so does our disappointments. Time has always been a commodity, the more things you have to do the less time you seem to have and people now more than ever guard their time jealously. While there’s not much you can do about people disappointing you, you can do something about how quickly you bounce back. It’s hard when someone disappoints you, whether it’s a trusted friend or colleague tossing you under the bus and hitting reverse speed, a dinner date cancelling last minute or family members who you thought would always have your back suddenly not there when you need them most. Life is filled with disappointments and you have a choice in your reaction to those disappointments.
“Your worth is determined by you, not the judgmental measuring cups of a fickle world.” ~ Katie St. Claire
Self-love and Self-care have both become quite popular in the circles of Self- Help. Not to be neglected, two words that are often used interchangeable to describe how we feel about ourselves, are Self-worth and Self-value, they reflect how we look at our worth and how much we value ourselves. To have Self-worth means to value one’s self. Self-value is a behavioural response to how worthy you think you are. There’s not a huge difference between their meaning and they can both be used to generalize the concept of how we see our selves and how we project ourselves to others. People who often know a person’s worth tend to use it to their advantage, by exploiting that person’s abilities. I’m not saying it doesn’t exists but rarely would you will find someone, whether it’s an employer, a partner or family who will value your self-worth and honor you for that. If you do find people who hold you to the highest esteem, cherish them.
Don’t let the expectations and opinions of other people affect your decisions. It’s your life, not theirs. Do what matters most to you; do what makes you feel alive and happy. Don’t let the expectations and ideas of others limit who you are. If you let others tell you who you are, you are living their reality — not yours. There is more to life than pleasing people. There is much more to life than following others’ prescribed path. There is so much more to life than what you experience right now. You need to decide who you are for yourself. Become a whole being. ― Roy T. Bennett
Prove that your cherished dreams are not necessary to your happiness, and all of those dreams will come true. Prove that you do not need the things you want, and you will get them, provided of course that you give all that is in you to the life you live. Prove that you already are sufficient in yourself, and have sufficient in the richness of your own world, and more and more will gather for you, both in the within and in the without. It is much gathering more; much in the within gathering more everywhere; it is your own strength inspiring all things to come with strength; it is the spirit of the great life aroused in yourself causing all things of greatness and worth to come and gather in the entire world of your own life. And it is in this spirit that we live and move and have our being, when the soul continues to sing that sweet reassuring refrain just be glad.